Cliché Signs That Someone is Your Soulmate
Probably we all have different opinions about what a soulmate should look like. And while we do find it exciting to meet someone new and to fall in love, who really wants to live their life alone? First, let’s attempt to define what a soulmate is.
It appears that the internet varies in their opinion of the definition of a soulmate. But what we find the most interesting definition on the internet is: "Soul Mate: Someone who is aligned with your soul and is sent to challenge, awaken and stir different parts of you in order for your soul to transcend to a higher level of consciousness and awareness. Once the lesson has been learned, physical separation usually occurs."
Often soulmates appear in disguise. You might not be physically attracted to each other when you first meet, but there is a mysterious force pushing you forward that tells you this is “the right one” for you.
So, if you are brave enough to move away from your romance checklist, open your eyes and your heart to unexpected possibilities, you might just be one of the lucky ones who find their true soul match.
You just know it.
Something deep inside tells you this is the perfect one for you. It’s as if there is a spiritual force pushing you to let go of everything you previously expected and to give of yourself completely.
Your quiet space is a peaceful place.
Being quiet together is comforting like a fluffy down blanket on a cold winter night. Whether you are reading in the same room or driving in the car, there’s a quiet peace between you.
You can hear the other person’s silent thoughts.
With soulmates, there is such depth to your relationship that you can feel and hear what your partner is thinking, even if it is not verbally expressed.
You feel each other’s pain.
You stand in each other’s shoes. You know each other so well, that the second he walks in the door, you can tell how his day was. You feel each other’s feelings: sadness, worry, and stress. And you share each other’s happiness and joy.
You share the same life goals.
You’re both on the same page with values, ethics, and goals. You may have a different way of reaching those goals, but you both want the same end result.
You are not threatened by the need for alone time.
Whether it’s tennis three times a week or girls’ night out, you respect each other’s need for independence, knowing that when you get together, your time alone is special.
You don’t experience jealousy.
Pretty girls at the office or handsome personal trainers aren’t a threat to your relationship. You are secure knowing that you are the only one.
You respect each other’s differences and opinions.
You know you have different opinions. Often soulmates are polar opposite. At times this is challenging. These are the times when you are being forced to let the other person complete you.
You still have your own opinion, but instead of agreeing to disagree, there is a deep level of respect for each other. You listen and honor the differences.
You know how to apologize.
It’s not easy to say “I’m sorry” or admit that you did something that hurt the person you love. Soulmates realize that their actions or words cause harm.
Even if they feel justified in their point of view, if their partner was hurt by it, they can easily apologize for the harm they have caused.
You would marry each other again.
You know this is the one and only one for you. Even though the tough times, you would choose your partner again. You feel a sense of pride in your partner.
You complete each other.
Yes, its a cliche thing to say but, your partner fills in your blanks. No person is perfect. We all have our strengths and weaknesses.
Soulmates complete each other. It’s the yin and yang of perfect harmony. One person may be the extrovert, while one is the introvert.
One may be social, while the other a homebody. Soulmates are often opposite that are attracted to a person who has their missing pieces.